First, I want to thank everyone who contributed to this post and other posts, especially amalek from the german forum.
Now, for anyone who still need some help, here is how I did :
1 - put my cd of XP in the cd driver (it's an sp3 pro of win xp I have).
2 - copy the file on the cd in a folder on my desktop.
3 - Download THIS
. This is a zip files with the required ICH9 drivers that are missing and that's why you get the BSOD
(note that I simply reuploaded amalek's zip file so there is more source for this file that made my day!!! it's the exact same file). One downloaded, extract to desktop.
4 - get nlite and run it, choose the folder where you previously copied the xp cd. Then hit the "next" button until you reach the Task selection screen and switch to green the "integrate drivers" button (sorry if not exact, i did this in french). So next you should be able to integrate a "single driver" and now go to the folder "SATA Treiber für XP Setup" and select this inf file iaAHCI and finally select ICH9M driver.
5 - Rest if optional so integrate as you wish different drivers. Finally end with creating the new ISO, burn, and enjoy.
Hope this helps, if not, feel free to email me at : z h n z h n 3 0 9 AT h o t m a i l . c o m